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February 19, 2016

Girls Bedroom Makeover

Note to self…next time you give one of your kids’ rooms a makeover, be sure to take photos of it immediately after you place the final little accessory on a shelf. Because, if you don’t, you will put it off and put it off and put it off because you know that in order to take the pictures you will have to clear out all of the little ‘extras’ your child decided to add to the room once the makeover was completed.

Girls vintage bedroom atthepicketfence.com

But I have to be honest. I was really tempted to just leave all of those doo-dads and knick-knacks exactly where they were. As I was gathering up all of the stuffed animals and Lego Friends pieces, the scraps of papers with little drawings on them and loose beads from half-completed bracelets, all I could think about was how THEY were actually what made the room beautiful. They make it feel alive.

Use a vintage table as a nightstand atthepicketfence.com

I guess with time flying by at warp speed, I no longer look at all of those things as ‘messy’ but rather as the evidence that there is a child in our home who still has an imagination. A girl whose stuffed animals still talk to her and who builds houses for them out of cardboard boxes.

Vintage inspired girl's bedroom

A girl who wanted a pink room and who sometimes reads books at her window seat but mostly uses it for setting up elaborate scenes for her dolls.

built in window seat with garland window treatment

I’ve noticed something different about my son’s room now that he is almost 13. No, it’s not the horrible boy odor that hits me like a ton of bricks every time I walk through the door. It’s the lack of train tracks and crazy Lego concoctions. The doo-dads and knick-knacks that provide evidence of a thriving imagination.

window seat pillows atthepicketfence.com

And, in the spirit of full disclosure here, I didn’t always see those things as positives. I saw them as ‘stuff’ or ‘mess’. I saw them as the things that made it really hard to properly vacuum or dust.

But with my daughter, it’s different. Perhaps it’s that she’s a girl and some of the things she plays with are things that hold a special place in my heart. Like the dollhouse my dad built for us when my sister and I were little girls.

Colonial style wood dollhouse

Or maybe it’s that I understand better her love of accessories being an accessory loving girl myself.

chalkboard sign with crystal knob hooks

Maybe I’m as giddy as she is over the little American Girl doll boutique we created in the cupboard portion of her bookcase using a tension rod to display all of the fabulous clothing options.

Doll closet inside a cabinet using a tension rod

Maybe I’m secretly envious of her vintage vanity table because I would have LOVED one just like it when I was her age.

vintage vanity with stool in girls room

But, when I get right down to the heart of it, I don’t think it’s actually any of those things.

I think it’s that she’s my youngest.

galvanized letter monogram on wall atthepicketfence.com

And that now I’ve experienced how quickly the evidence of imagination is replaced with evidence of another kind. Evidence of a new stage. Evidence that looks suspiciously more grown-up.

Bible verse typography sign over bed

So, I’m more relaxed these days about having to dust around all of the stuff. About being warned by my little miss not to disturb the house she has made for her stuffed mouse (named ‘Squeaker’ by the way) out of the lid of a box.

floral nesting boxes

Because I want to enjoy every last ounce of ‘little’ there is left in our home. And, frankly, I want her to enjoy every last ounce of it too!

I want her to stay lost in her imagination for as long as possible

silk yellow roses

So, I may have put all of the knick-knacks and doo-dads in the hallway while I took these photos…

But, the minute the shutter clicked on the last picture I happily put them all right back out again!

Thank you for meeting me today at the fence,

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Source List

Wood Typography Scripture Sign: Signs of Hope

Bookcases: Kathy Ireland Line on Amazon

Galvanized Letters: Walmart

Window Seat Pillows: HomeGoods

Floral Pillow Shams: Better Homes and Gardens line at Walmart

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  1. Carol Reddin says

    February 19, 2016 at 8:35 AM

    I very well remember when you said that you had “lost your imagination.” It was perplexing to you and a realization to me that your childhood was slipping away! So very thankful that you are encouraging our granddaughter to hold on to her childhood and her imagination as long as possible. Love her – love you!

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  2. Pam @ diy Design Fanatic says

    February 19, 2016 at 10:01 AM

    Your daughter’s room is lovely Vanessa! I hope your daughter has many happy memories in it. Time goes by so quickly, so enjoy these years! I just wrote about some memories of our oldest today because that video of little 3 year old Claire stirred them up. Hope you have a great weekend!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      February 19, 2016 at 4:01 PM

      Thank you so much Pam!

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  3. Doreen @ Hymns and Verses says

    February 19, 2016 at 10:28 AM

    Vanessa,

    Oh my – what a sweet room! I love the pink and soft yellow combination with the bold pops in the accessories! That window seat is enchanting and I can only imagine the scenes played out there!!! Wonderful job – enjoy every moment with your girl!!!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      February 19, 2016 at 4:01 PM

      Thank you so much Doreen!

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  4. Lisa Mothersead says

    February 20, 2016 at 9:02 AM

    Sweet! Lovely room! I love my girls, now 23 and 30, SO much and loved that stage, too.

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  5. Joanne says

    February 22, 2016 at 9:58 AM

    My kiddos are the same age as yours and your post resonated so much. thank you for sharing!

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  6. Shirley@Housepitality Designs says

    February 22, 2016 at 6:34 PM

    A beautiful room that was obviously created with love. Your daughter will forever have memories of you always creating a very special place just for her.

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  7. Margaret says

    June 15, 2016 at 9:59 PM

    Incredibly beautiful!Love the furniture and the paint too.This reminds me to give my room a make over. Thank you so much for this inspiration.

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