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December 19, 2011

Our Grandmother….

Today we has a post planned full of holiday decorations and some last minute ideas….
Today we lost our grandmother.

She was 93, she was suffering, she had stopped eating and drinking…and she was ready to be with her Savior.

This is the last time we were all together….in 2002..that is so sad to us. 
We were not ready to say goodbye.
We would have seen her in a few days.  Now we will be attending her memorial service.
Today we are mourning the loss of our last grandparent, yet we feel so blessed to have had grandparents as long as we did in our lives. Our children were blessed to have met GREAT-grandparents, when so many never do.
Please be in prayer for our mom, and our aunts and uncle.

Today we will spend time remembering this hardworking, flower loving, simple farmwife from Michigan.
This post is dedicated to the memory of Beryl Kaiser…
our grandmother.
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  1. Pam - diy Design Fanatic says

    December 19, 2011 at 5:51 PM

    So sorry for your loss Heather and Vanessa. Will be praying for you and your family. Thanking God today that your Grandmother is celebrating in heaven and that her suffering has ended.

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  2. Sue says

    December 19, 2011 at 5:52 PM

    During this sad time for you both, hold close to your hearts all of the memories that she left you. I’m sure they will help sustain you.
    ~ Sue

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  3. Judy says

    December 19, 2011 at 5:56 PM

    My heart and prayers are with you both and your entire family. I am thankful that your Grandmother no longer is suffering and I am sure she is with you all and always will be.

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  4. Bonnie@Creative Decorating says

    December 19, 2011 at 5:58 PM

    Vanessa and Heather,
    I am so sorry for your loss. No matter how grateful we are for the time together and happy we are that our loved ones will be with our Lord, it is never easy to say goodbye. My thoughts and prayers are with you and remember she will be smiling because you are all together again.

    Bonnie

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  5. Honey at 2805 says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:07 PM

    I am so sorry for your family’s loss and hope you find comfort and joy in remembering wonderful times and traditions you have shared together at this special time of year.

    May God bless and comfort you.

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  6. Ruby Jean says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:13 PM

    Heather and Vanessa, I am so sorry for you loss.. But am joyous that you have the confidence in her eternal destination. What a gift to have had her with you for so many years and that she lived a full and long life. I pray that your comfort would be in Him as well as for your Mother and Aunt’s… Blessings and Joyous Rejoicing Christmas to you and your family.

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  7. Barbara F. says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:17 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. She is in a better place and free from her illness. Blessings to you and your family. xo

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  8. Deidre~ says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:20 PM

    Im Truely very sorry for the loss of your dear Grandmother.The Angels are rejoicing in heaven right now as another precious saint has come home.Im praying that the great comforter wil wrap you all in his loving arms and hold you there as you get through this.Cherish the Memories. Deidre~

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  9. Dianne says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:23 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. May God wrap His arms around you and comfort you and yours. I know it is a sad time for you but think of how exciting her day is ..seeing Jesus. God Bless

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  10. Suzy says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:23 PM

    Heather and Vanessa – I’m so sorry to hear of the loss of your grandmother. Grandparents are really something special. I lift the both of you and all of your family up to the loving, comforting arms of Jesus. Suzy

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  11. Carla @ Hammers and High Heels says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:24 PM

    I’m so sorry for your loss. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. Losing a grandparent is very hard, I still miss my grandmother very much. Sending you strength and *hugs*

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  12. Anne Lorys - Fiona and Twig says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:27 PM

    Oh Heather and Vanessa, my heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry, I understand your pain, and I am sending you all my love and prayers.

    And yes, I believe that she is resting in the sweet and comforting arms of our Saviour, praise God!

    I’m here for you if you need anything.
    Love you both,
    Anne

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  13. debbie refresh restyle says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:28 PM

    Heather and Vanessa, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Grandparents are so special, I still think of mine and remember the stories they used to tell while sitting on the front porch drinking tea on the warm summer nights. Seems like yesterday. Special times and special memories.
    God bless,
    Debbie

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  14. Kathy @ Creative Home Expressions says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:34 PM

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Heather and Vanessa.

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  15. Sherry says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:38 PM

    Heather and Vanessa,
    I am so sorry for your loss! What a blessing she was with you all this time. May her memorial be a celebration of her life.
    Hugs,
    Sherry

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  16. Maria Elena says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:44 PM

    Heather and Vanessa, I am so very sorry for your loss.
    My heart goes out to you both because my husband and I know what it is to lose a loved one during this time of the year. It is so hard. We have just gone through the same thing.
    Praying for you and your family during these difficult times.

    Reply
  17. Barb says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:47 PM

    I’m so sorry – I can feel your sadness.

    Reply
  18. Carol says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:47 PM

    My thoughts & prayers are with you and your entire family. May you feel God’s love & comfort during this time of loss.

    Reply
  19. ChRiS says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:50 PM

    sorry for your loss as for me my grandparents passing is prolly the worse thing i have ever faced i was very close to them…..but i have so many great memories that always help deal with the pain….again i am so sorry

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  20. Kristin says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:51 PM

    So, so sorry, girls.
    Praying for you and your family.
    XO

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  21. Amanda says

    December 19, 2011 at 6:54 PM

    So very sorry for your loss, its never easy losing a loved one, but at this time of year it seems especially difficult.
    Keeping you both and your family in my thoughts.

    Reply
  22. Gail says

    December 19, 2011 at 7:14 PM

    I’m so sorry for your loss of your grandmother. I will be keeping you both and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

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  23. Darleen ~ Places In The Home says

    December 19, 2011 at 7:15 PM

    With my deepest sympathy, prayers for your Mother and entire family, and thoughts of you all at this trying time~

    Darleen

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  24. Emily says

    December 19, 2011 at 7:16 PM

    Heather and Vanessa~I was so sorry to hear of your loss. May the peace which comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you and your family now and in the days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you.

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  25. Shelia says

    December 19, 2011 at 7:36 PM

    Oh, Dear Ones, I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother. My heart breaks for you. You will be in my prayers. But remember, we do have the promise, as Christians, we’ll see our loved ones again. Hallelujah!
    Blessings,
    Shelia

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  26. beachbumchix says

    December 19, 2011 at 7:39 PM

    earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal…

    …very sorry for your loss. thoughts and prayers are with you all. xo

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  27. White Ironstone Cottage says

    December 19, 2011 at 7:54 PM

    Sending you all Love and prayers
    xxoo
    Pam

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  28. Curtains in My Tree says

    December 19, 2011 at 7:59 PM

    There is nothing as sweet as Granny, I miss mine and she died in 1996, miss her everyday.

    Your Grandmother was so pretty standing there with all you girls.
    This is a hard time of life. May you find comfort in knowing she was loved by many

    Janice Dauksch

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  29. Tyla says

    December 19, 2011 at 8:16 PM

    “Those who live in the Lord never see each other for the last time.” – anonymous

    So very sorry for your loss, especially during this time of the year.

    Reply
  30. Katie says

    December 19, 2011 at 8:17 PM

    I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  31. Kim @ Savvy Southern Style says

    December 19, 2011 at 8:23 PM

    So very sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you both and your family in prayer.

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  32. Susan (My Place to Yours) says

    December 19, 2011 at 8:31 PM

    Heather and Vanessa, I’m holding you and your family close in my prayers this afternoon. Heaven is a brighter place today — and this earth is a better place because of the legacy your dear grandmother left behind. You girls are a testament to that! I look forward to walking through heavenly gardens one day with Mrs. Kaiser. In the meantime, I pray that God will bless you with beautiful memories and joyful laughter as you celebrate her life and the birth of the One she served.

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  33. janet says

    December 19, 2011 at 8:39 PM

    Dear Vanessa and Heather,

    So sorry to hear about your lovely Grandmother, Beryl.
    I know first hand how hard it is to say goodbye to loved ones, especially those who have been such an important part of our lives. Such a void is left and it will will remain for a long time and then little by little that void is replaced with happy and joyful memories and moments of laughter as you remember all the good times.
    For now all you can do is be there for each other and encase yourselves in family love.

    Sending good thoughts your way

    Janet
    The Empty Nest

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  34. Wendy @HerBallistic Garden says

    December 19, 2011 at 8:52 PM

    So sorry to hear of your loss. It’s never easy losing someone close to you that you knew your whole life…Take care and love each other.

    xo

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  35. Gypsy Heart says

    December 19, 2011 at 9:19 PM

    I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my grandmother in the 60’s and I still miss her. We are truly blessed though to have them as long as we did. I’m sure you have such beautiful memories to treasure. I will hold all of you in prayer and send peace and strength.

    She is with our Lord and celebrating with the angels. No more pain or suffering ~ just joy!

    xo
    Pat

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  36. Grammy Goodwill says

    December 19, 2011 at 9:37 PM

    I’m sorry to hear of the loss of your grandmother, but how blessed you were to have her in your lives for so long.

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  37. Debra @ Common Ground says

    December 19, 2011 at 9:54 PM

    What a precious photo of her in the garden. prayers for comfort being sent for you all. How wonderful that she will be celebrating Christmas in heaven!! xoxo

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  38. Youaretalkingtoomuch.com says

    December 19, 2011 at 10:17 PM

    I am so thankful you have the comfort of knowing you will see her again. She gets to celebrate Christmas in Heaven! Pain free….I am so sorry for your loss! Love, Rebecca

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  39. Redo 101 says

    December 19, 2011 at 10:34 PM

    So sorry for the loss of your grandmother, but thankful she is with the Lord. I’ll be praying for all of you.

    Hugs,
    Mary

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  40. Anna says

    December 19, 2011 at 10:45 PM

    I am so sorry. No matter how old, or how ready they were, it’s still always hard to lose someone. I will pray for comfort for your family.

    Anna
    http://www.askannamoseley.com

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  41. Savvy Seasons says

    December 19, 2011 at 10:47 PM

    Oh no, I am so sorry to hear your news. My heart and prayers go out to you and your entire family.

    Thanks for sharing with us. Sending prayers and ((Hugs)) your way. xo Liz

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  42. Janet says

    December 19, 2011 at 10:49 PM

    So sorry for your loss. Even knowing she’s with the Lord, free of pain and probably having a banquet, doesn’t remove the pain. You’ll all be in my prayers. My uncle, same age, with Alzheimers broke a hip and is having surgery today. We might be mourning at Christmastime, too. If you can think of it, prayers, please?
    Love,
    Janet

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  43. Kristin @ My Uncommon Slice of Suburbia says

    December 19, 2011 at 10:53 PM

    I’m so sorry girls, what a difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers, wish I were closer to help. Lots of love
    Kristin

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  44. Gwen @ The Bold Abode says

    December 19, 2011 at 11:09 PM

    I am so sorry. We are never ready to lose someone we love. Never. I still miss my granddaddy…

    Prayers and hugs…

    Gwen

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  45. Gina says

    December 19, 2011 at 11:10 PM

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.

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  46. Kelly says

    December 19, 2011 at 11:13 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. She looked like a beautiful woman. I know this can’t be an easy time right here at Christmas too. I hope you can take comfort in knowing she isn’t suffering anymore.

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  47. Jeri says

    December 19, 2011 at 11:21 PM

    Please know your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

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  48. Richella says

    December 19, 2011 at 11:36 PM

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Vanessa and Heather. And I’m so very happy for your grandmother. How amazing to meet Jesus face-to-face right when the world is celebrating his coming to earth! His coming means that He is with us. I know He is with you now. I will pray for your family and especially for you two this week. God bless you. I look forward to meeting your grandmother some day!

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  49. Traci says

    December 20, 2011 at 12:25 AM

    Sending prayers! I hope that knowing she’s in a better place & no longer suffering brings you all peace.

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  50. Jane@Cottage at the Crossroads says

    December 20, 2011 at 12:41 AM

    So sorry to hear about the loss of your grandmother.She looked like a dear lady whose legacy includes the two of you. May you be comforted by the thoughts and prayers of many people.

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  51. janet says

    December 20, 2011 at 12:43 AM

    So sorry to hear about your loss..My thoughts and prayers are with you both..

    Reply
  52. Roeshel S says

    December 20, 2011 at 1:08 AM

    Oh girls, I am so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. {hug}

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  53. Anonymous says

    December 20, 2011 at 1:20 AM

    my thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.

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  54. Elizabeth (Blue Clear Sky) says

    December 20, 2011 at 2:16 AM

    Sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved grandmother. My thoughts are with you both.

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  55. Sophia's says

    December 20, 2011 at 2:45 AM

    I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother. That must be so hard right before Christmas! My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

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  56. Marianne says

    December 20, 2011 at 2:52 AM

    Vanessa and Heather,

    So sorry to hear about the passing of your grandmother. This is such a tough time to loose someone close but just remember that she is in a happy place. You are both so fortunate to have had her for so long and I know you have wonderful memories. I lost my one grandmother when I was 6 years old and still remember her like it was yesterday. She was such a special part of my life.

    Prayers and Hugs to you and your family,
    Marianne

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  57. Sharon @ Elizabeth & Co. says

    December 20, 2011 at 3:32 AM

    So sorry for your loss girls. Sending symapthy and caring thoughts to your entire family.

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  58. It's All Connected says

    December 20, 2011 at 3:35 AM

    I am so very sorry. Take care of each other and your mom.

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  59. Sue says

    December 20, 2011 at 4:40 AM

    Thinking of you today, Heather and Vanessa. Prayers for you and your family.

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  60. Jen Lossing, The Consigner Designer says

    December 20, 2011 at 4:46 AM

    I am so sorry to hear your grandmother passed away. I am sending my prayers to your family!

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  61. Kim {Recipes To Run On} says

    December 19, 2011 at 10:18 PM

    I’m so sorry for the loss of your grandmother. Having JUST returned home from a visit out of town to see my grandmother {and crying as we left knowing that she is nearly 90 and I never know how much longer we have}, this post touches my heart. You all are in my prayers for comfort and peace.

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  62. Roxanna says

    December 19, 2011 at 10:19 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. Precious memories in your photos and a such a blessing to have her as long as you did.

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  63. Courtney ~ French Country Cottage says

    December 19, 2011 at 11:23 PM

    I am so sorry Vanessa and Heather. I lost my grandmother just before Christmas last year and I know how hard it is. If you need anything or just want to talk- I am here. Sending good thoughts and prayers your way. Hugs, Courtney

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  64. Haniela says

    December 20, 2011 at 10:07 AM

    I’m so so sorry to hear about your grandmother’s passing.♥

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  65. scrappn644 says

    December 20, 2011 at 3:36 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss, especially during the holidays…but be joyful! A king is born, and because of Him you will be with your beloved grandmother again in eternity. Praying for your family.

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  66. Debbie says

    December 20, 2011 at 12:41 PM

    I’m crying.
    I had a long night of praying for someone so I’m pretty spent anyway. Then, I saw this post. I lost my own beloved grandmother the week before Christmas. She was buried on my birthday, Christmas Eve. I have been transported back to that day by reading this.

    It’s always hard to say good-bye. It doesn’t matter how old they are or how feeble or that they are at this very moment casting their crowns at the throne and hearing the words, “Well done.” The joy you feel at their glorified status only helps a little to tender your lonely heart right now. I know. I remember.

    And I remember the peace that passes understanding guarding the hearts of my family like the miracle it is. May God’s indescribable peace be yours today.

    I care. I pray.

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  67. marty (A Stroll Thru Life) says

    December 20, 2011 at 12:54 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss, my heart and prayers are with you both and all of your family. I know she is resting in the arms of the Lord. God Bless. Hugs, Marty

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  68. Kim says

    December 20, 2011 at 1:27 PM

    I am so sorry Heather and Vanessa. You and your children are so blessed to have had her so long in your lives. She will live on through your memories and the stories you continue to share about her. May peace be with you and your families this Christmas.

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  69. Karen says

    December 21, 2011 at 4:01 AM

    Girls, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers & thoughts will be with you ~ it is hard at the present time for my family too, we lost a loved one too and said goodbye last week. Thinking of all of you!

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  70. CAS says

    December 22, 2011 at 4:33 AM

    I am so sorry, Heather & Vanessa, for your loss. This special lady has obviously left many wonderful memories, & her legacy will live on in you, your children and your other family members. I know this is truly a sad time, but my prayer is that you will soon remember all the wonderfulness this woman has left you with & dwell less on her loss. God bless all of you.
    CAS

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  71. Sonya@Beyond the Screen Door says

    December 22, 2011 at 5:01 AM

    Heather and Vanessa, I am so sorry for your loss. The Homegoing of a Christian loved one who had had a long full life like your grandmother can be such a celebration but it’s still hard. So very hard. Some of the fondest memories we have as adults are the times spent with our grandparents. Cherish those memories. My prayers are with your families.

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  72. Christina {Designing by Numbers} says

    December 22, 2011 at 4:51 PM

    My deepest condolences to you both and to your families for this great loss.

    All my best,
    Christina

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Here, in my little corner of social media, you won Here, in my little corner of social media, you won’t find a lot of unboxing of brand new items for Christmas. 

What I’m unboxing are the decorations in the attic that  I’ve had for years and figuring out how to give them a fresh look. I added new lights to an old pre-lit tree that no longer worked because I couldn’t bring myself to get rid of it. I’m putting out a different set of mugs at the hot cocoa station and the advent candles are arranged with greenery from outside.

As our feeds are filled with so.much.stuff, I want to offer you a reprieve. A place where you will find less emphasis on what’s happening in our homes and more on what’s happening in our hearts.

More than ever before, I can see just how much people are needing the hope found in Christ and that will always be the focus here. 

So, while you may not see me unpacking a massive, new tree or telling you to “comment for the link”, what you will see is encouragement to turn our hearts to what matters the most and let that reflect in every corner of our homes this season and all year long. 🌲

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