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December 6, 2017

Winter Decorating in the Dining Room

A few years ago, as I began to decorate for Christmas, I had a glorious ah-hah moment. One might even call it an epiphany. Get it…epiphany…Christmas….I can never resist the opportunity for a good pun!

ANYWAY, as I began to clear off surfaces and psyche myself up to head into the attic for the bins of decorations, I realized that I was feeling this sense of dread. It wasn’t that I didn’t look forward to having the Christmas decor around the house, it was knowing that I would be doing all of that work only to take it down so soon afterwards.

But, as I began to clear off surfaces and sort through the plastic tubs it dawned on me. What I really needed to do was to keep things a little less ‘Christmas-y’ and a lot more ‘winter-y’.

I decided to give myself the gift of more time.

Because if this new approach to seasonal decorating bought me an extra month or two where I didn’t have to re-decorate a tabletop or a mantel, it could quite possibly be one of the greatest gifts ever.

And, do you want to know a secret? This year, I didn’t even take the plastic bins out of the attic! I just went in there and brought a few items out a little bit at a time. It was glorious!

I also gathered up several bags filled with Christmas decor I knew I would never use again and dropped it off at the Union Gospel Mission store.

This new approach to seasonal decorating is particularly apparent in my dining room where my sideboard was put together in a matter of minutes.

Wintery trees in varying sizes were placed next to the lamps and then my favorite little cabinet was added in and filled up with all sorts of goodies that I pulled from around the house. The copper mugs add such a lovely pop of warm sparkle.

My only real nod to Christmas is this Santa and I think that even he will remain there long after December 25th.

When I began to take this approach a few years ago, I don’t think I fully realized that, aside from being less stressful and time-consuming, it also allows me to enjoy the beauty of the season much longer.

Because, the next time I will clear off surfaces and bring out new decorations will be in preparation for Spring.

And that means I get to enjoy the twinkling lights, the pine-scented candles and the true beauty of this season for just a little bit longer.

So, here’s my question for you, what are YOU doing this season to give yourself a bit of a break? I’d love to hear from you!

And, as always, thank you so much for meeting me at the fence today,

19 Comments Filed Under: Christmas, Decorating, Good Ideas, Holidays Tagged With: Christmas, Christmas decorating, dining room

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  1. susan says

    December 6, 2017 at 5:49 PM

    Love the idea!! Love the small, unique cabinet!! Please tell me your dining room wall paint colors. Thank you!

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  2. Nikki Gwin says

    December 6, 2017 at 5:50 PM

    I did the same thing on my front porch. I changed just the pillows to winter and added sparkle to the flowers and DONE for winter and Christmas!
    🙂 gwingal

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  3. Sharon Pace says

    December 6, 2017 at 5:55 PM

    I too have decided to pare down decorating. I still have special Christmasy things but no longer get out the 92 pieces of Christmas China when the 12 dinner plates & dessert plates do the job! I love this time saving idea! Oh yes, I do get the 12 WINE glasses out too!

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  4. Genny says

    December 6, 2017 at 6:21 PM

    I am doing the same as you this year. Partly, it’s because the kids are grown and gone and I put up and take down myself (with the hubs help). But what I enjoy most is just a simple reminder of the season and lights.

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  5. laura says

    December 6, 2017 at 7:28 PM

    Love this idea. It’s funny I was thinking my decor looks a little tired. Maybe it’s just a tad too much!

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  6. Norma Rolader says

    December 7, 2017 at 4:25 AM

    Oh how adorable and inviting

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  7. Vicki S says

    December 7, 2017 at 4:54 AM

    This Christmas I was “forced” to minimalize my decorating as we sold a house, building a new home and living in a small rental. I’m the one with the 4 trees to decorate, dining table to make pretty with all the Christmas dishes, everyone table top must have something festive along with bathrooms and kitchen and dens, etc….Not this year – only room for 1 tree, my 2 kids and 6 grands stockings are hung (tradition) and my cherished Precious Moments nativity. And know what – I really like the idea of not putting it all “out”. So note to self – next Christmas, even though it will be in a brand new place – I like the simple look and the Less is More idea of the holidays!

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  8. Barbara says

    December 7, 2017 at 5:45 AM

    I love your idea of “less is more.” It looks lovely and clean – love all the white. There are enough Christmasy touches to recognize the season, but not overdone. Love the shiny touches like the copper mugs and the simple cinnamon sticks. The simplicity of the dining room table arrangement is eye-catching. You’ve done a wonderful job.

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 7, 2017 at 7:58 AM

      Thank you so much Barbara!

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  9. Lisa Mothersead says

    December 7, 2017 at 5:33 PM

    Very pretty and I remember that post. My theme this year is “Forest White” and pretty much my entire cottage home is wintery not so much Christmasy. Birch logs, gray (modern) sticks in white pitchers, bleached pinecones, live lil’ countertop trees, white ornaments on tree, (modern) white reindeer, and texture in white/ivory fluffy pillows, throws, and rugs. So, I’ll be keeping much of it up through mid February when I’ll slowly start bringing in spring touches.

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  10. Susan says

    December 10, 2017 at 10:09 AM

    Oh I love this idea of downsizing! I just don’t have that much to pull out! Most of my decorations go on the tree and mantel. Love your little Santa!

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  11. Susan says

    December 10, 2017 at 10:24 AM

    I really like your idea of winter decorating! It’s so sad when I take down all the lights on our mantels! So, like you, I have decided to leave some of the more winter decorations out till spring! I love your side bar and little Santa!

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  12. Shirley @Housepitality Design s says

    December 11, 2017 at 3:45 AM

    Vanessa….loved your “epiphany” Your home is so beautiful!! I started out that way…trying to make it more simplistic in the Christmas decor…but as usual things got away from me…but not as much…(for me) … However, I must say that I have taken two loads of Christmas decor to our local PTA thrift store..
    Merry Christmas to you and your family!!!

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  13. Crystal says

    January 6, 2018 at 12:54 PM

    I began feeling-and doing the very same thing last year and continued with the purging this year. I have some physical problems which required me to give up my big tree, OH the horror and sadness of that day! What to do with my bazillion mercury glass ornies? How could I have Christmas? Happy to say, the little 4 foot tree I kept was groaning under not quite a bazillion mercury glass ornaments, and looked quite festive. The rest of the house was treated to my typical winter décor, greenery, pine cones and ornies tucked in. It didn’t really feel like Christmas without my big, glorious tree but I felt a lot better physically and I expect the little tree will become enough as my spine continues to deteriorate. Winter décor was a snap this year and I’m enjoying a simpler, less cluttered approach. BTW, I watch Hallmark movies in July!!!

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  14. Darlene @ Castle Revival says

    January 6, 2018 at 6:47 PM

    I love this! It is just so energy saving and logical to enjoy all the beauty for more than a month. Your neutral texture are such a soothing reprieve from the traditional hues of Christmas. Thanks for sharing your lovely inspiration with us!

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  15. Cindy Richter says

    January 8, 2018 at 9:36 AM

    Dang it – I saw this on Thistlewood Farms today and wish I’d seen in a long time ago! I love how you’ve decorated for Winter . Everything is perfect. Glad I found you!

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  16. Kim says

    January 9, 2018 at 6:44 AM

    Love your decor! And that Santa! He’s so special- so you remember where you found him? This is a great strategy for decorating. Thanks for sharing

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  17. Pam Perry says

    February 5, 2018 at 8:23 PM

    Yes! I love this & have been doing the same for the past few years. My favorite snowmen, greenery, & “wintery” décor stay out til mid March~Very freeing indeed!

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  18. Vel Smith says

    December 20, 2018 at 4:58 PM

    Your buffet is really beautiful. I can relate to what you write because I also do Christmas/winter decorating that I can leave up during the coldest of Winter. (including white lights) The one thing I couldn’t do without is the nativity.

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