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December 8, 2015

Paper Angels and Pretty Trees

simply decorated Christmas tree with paper banner

I don’t know about you, but it seems that beautifully decorated homes all dressed up for Christmas have taken over my social media accounts these days. In fact, this week I’m joining a group of bloggers who are going to be sharing some of their favorite holiday rooms. Hosted by The Everyday Home and Town and Country Living, each day we’ll be bringing you loads of Christmas eye-candy.

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But friends, these days, while I regularly find myself sighing and swooning and maybe even drooling a bit over all of the impeccably decorated trees and Pottery Barn worthy table displays, I can’t help but wonder about something.

Something that seems to be missing.

Cottage style Christmas decor atthepicketfence.com

Where oh where are the ornaments made with Popsicle sticks?

Where are the cheesy ornaments you’ve had since 1972?

Where are the ones made by little hands at school and brought home with great anticipation, eager to hang front and center on the Christmas tree?

Where are the real ornaments?

So, you see, I decided it was high time to show off a different kind of tree.

One where paper angels aren’t relegated to the back.

Using a basket as a Christmas tree stand atthepicketfence.com

Because, you see, I believe that the pretty and the practical can peacefully co-exist.

In fact, I believe that when our decorating is grounded in reality, it might just be even MORE beautiful.

I believe that we can pull out those old family ornaments and display them proudly, seamlessly incorporating them into your decor without hiding them away in the far corners of your home.

And I believe that the best way to blend the old with the new is by putting a fresh spin on things.

Using a fun tree stand, like the basket pictured above, is a great place to start.

And adding a touch of whimsy, like this oversized music sheet paper garland, makes such a great statement.

Vintage music sheet banner on Christmas tree atthepicketfence.com

The thing is, my heart flutters the most when I pull out this type of ornament.

child's paper star ornament

And this one of me circa 1981.

retro style photo Christmas ornament

And when I hang those treasured ornaments on the tree next to sparkly mercury glass jars, they seem to take on a shiny new luster.

hanging mercury glass jars on Christmas tree

I don’t believe that Christmas decorating has to be an either/or situation.

Simple Christmas family room decor atthepicketfence.com

We don’t have to either have really beautiful decor OR use our cherished family treasures.

Simple Christmas mantel decorating idea

I think that that, if we put our minds to it, we can find a way to have the very best of both worlds.

wood corbel and white pitcher on mantel

I want my kids to see that I enjoy being creative in our home and using it as a type of canvas to express that creativity.

What I don’t want is for them to have memories of mommy sticking all of their homemade ornaments on the back of the tree each year. Or not even putting them on the tree at all! Now, granted, for the sake of space some of them do end up on the backside.

simple advent candle arrangement

But, I really want my kids to know that those ornaments are even MORE beautiful, more important to me than anything I could ever buy ready-made at the craft store.

winter tabletop decor atthepicketfence.com

And that preparing our homes for the season isn’t nearly as important as preparing our hearts.

Traditional home style Christmas decor

Thank you so much for meeting me in my family room today At the Picket Fence,

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Christmas tree with family ornaments atthepicketfence.com

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  1. Nancy says

    December 8, 2015 at 7:15 AM

    I have a tree decorated just like you describe. Treasures made for me by my children and grandchildren. And yes, my daughters ages 47 and 50 still roll their eyes at their mom! One daughter totally refused to let me use one from her early early childhood. Yes, it’s not pretty but it was made by her little hands at age 3.

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  2. Shirley@Housepitality Designs says

    December 8, 2015 at 8:31 AM

    So very, very beautiful Vanessa!….Merry Christmas!!!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 8, 2015 at 8:15 PM

      Thank you Shirley! Merry Christmas to you too my friend!

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  3. TidyMom says

    December 8, 2015 at 9:47 AM

    well said my friend!! and well done!! your tree and home are gorgeous!!!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 8, 2015 at 8:15 PM

      Thanks girl! 🙂

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  4. Mary Beth|Cupcakes and Crinoline says

    December 8, 2015 at 12:09 PM

    Everything looks beautiful, Vanessa…warm, inviting and real! hugs

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 8, 2015 at 8:15 PM

      Thank you Mary Beth!

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  5. Kim says

    December 8, 2015 at 12:23 PM

    Love that gorgeous tree and the other festive details in the room. BTW, your link under the thumbnail is incorrect. I had to just come over to see your post.

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 8, 2015 at 12:47 PM

      Thanks so much Kim! I just checked the link and it went through but I will check on it again to make sure. Thanks for the heads up! 🙂

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  6. Tami says

    December 8, 2015 at 1:06 PM

    Thank you! I just can’t part with the ornaments that hold such precious memories. I love decorating the tree with them and enjoying them all season long! Wonderful post!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 8, 2015 at 8:15 PM

      Thank you Tami!

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  7. Pam says

    December 8, 2015 at 2:21 PM

    I’m in love with your mantel. Simple and elegant and shouts Christmas without shouting it 🙂

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 8, 2015 at 8:15 PM

      Aww thanks so much Pam!

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  8. Jennifer@The Chronicles of Home says

    December 8, 2015 at 6:01 PM

    I’ve been thinking the same thing this year. Perhaps one too many years of NOT having the family treasures out. I think next year will be a little different for me 🙂 Your house looks beautiful.

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 8, 2015 at 8:14 PM

      Thank you so much Jennifer!

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  9. Jennifer @ Town and Country Living says

    December 8, 2015 at 6:24 PM

    I love that you don’t push your children’s ornaments to the back of the tree! They’re precious! I love your paper garland on the tree! Thanks for joining the tour, Vanessa!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 8, 2015 at 8:14 PM

      Thanks Jennifer!

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  10. Pamela says

    December 8, 2015 at 9:08 PM

    As always beautiful Vanessa!

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  11. Marty@A Stroll Thru Life says

    December 9, 2015 at 7:55 AM

    My favorite kind of tree is one decorated with things the children made or picked out. I use them all every year. Gorgeous tree and beautiful decor.

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  12. Tonya says

    December 9, 2015 at 5:10 PM

    I love this post, the message here. And as a mom of one grown boy whose handmade ornaments were destroyed when a roof leak caused major damage in our attic, I long for those precious keepsakes every year. I think it’s awesome that yours take center stage and mingle so beautifully with all the other decorations in your home. To me, this is magazine worthy….pottery barn has nothing on you.

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  13. Danielle says

    December 9, 2015 at 6:43 PM

    So very well put, Vanessa! I couldn’t agree more with you. I love all the pretty pictures too but really we live in our house and I want to embrace the people and the the hearts who share it with me. Who make the holidays so special. My son was so excited to make a santa tree topper.I LOVE your tree and your paper angels and handmade ornaments. Gorgeous home with lots of heart. xx

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      December 9, 2015 at 8:07 PM

      Oh thank you so much for such sweet and encouraging words Danielle!! Merry Christmas to you and your family! 🙂

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  14. Anne says

    December 11, 2015 at 8:26 AM

    What beautiful memories you kiddos will have with those precious ornaments. I have to admit, I am guilty of hiding some of mine. But in my defense, most have fallen apart because of age. But in my daughters room, she has her own tree, and on that tree she’s decorated it with a few treasured pieces that are still hanging on. Pieces that she created, and are still meaningful to her. So proud of her, as she’s always known the true meaning of the season. It’s not about the gifts, but why we celebrate the season. Thank you for sharing your beautiful home, and those precious ornaments. May the season be filled with joy for and your family! Merry Christmas!

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  15. laura@duke manor farm says

    December 12, 2015 at 4:33 AM

    Vanessa, I am a traditional girl at heart I LOVE looking at the homemade ornaments from my kids or from my nieces and nephew who are now in their 20’s. so many magical Christmas memories.

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  16. Chloe | Boxwood Avenue says

    December 27, 2015 at 12:48 AM

    I have to agree! I think it’s great to feature the kiddies beautiful work AND have your favorite store bought goodies too! I also LOVE all of your white pitchers! This Christmas I decided I was going to start collecting them!

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