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January 30, 2013

What Is Love? Valentine’s Day Tree

Valentine's Day Tree from At The Picket Fence label

I had been having one of those days with my kids. I don’t really want to name any names.

But, it was mostly the oldest one.

After several “please stop doing that”s and “leave your sister alone”s and “don’t make me come up there”s, my patience level was on the edge.

And then it just got tipped right over that edge. I don’t remember the specifics but I know it had something to do with someone getting in someone else’s face and then someone not telling the truth about something and then someone tattling on someone and then…well…you get the idea!

Everyone was immediately sent to their respective rooms while I attempted to get back to the Valentine’s Day craft I had been trying to work on prior to the countless interruptions.

A sweet little craft all about love.

And I wasn’t feeling very loving.

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But, as I tied those tags onto the red branches that I found on clearance at Target after Christmas, I started to really think about the words I had written on them.

And I realized that if you are going to make a Valentine’s Day Tree which answers the question, “What is Love?”, you probably shouldn’t lose your patience with your kids right before.

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Because, as I read through 1 Corinthians 13 I pondered each phrase.

“Love is patient.” Am I?

“Love is kind.” Do I always show kindness? And not just on the outside but in my heart too?

“It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.” Ouch!

Ummmm…maybe I don’t like this craft after all.

I think this is what is known as Divine timing!

This simple little Valentine’s Day craft stopped me in my tracks. We all know that the flowers and candy and lingerie (which of course isn’t actually a gift for me  😉  ) aren’t really what love is all about.

We know that it means so much more.

But what about these definitions? Is this what comes to mind when we think about love?

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“It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.”

Well, ummm…yeah….I’m thinking the flowers and candy and yes, even the lingerie, sound a whole lot simpler than this definition of love.

And then I got to this verse.

“It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

It sounds so strong. Courageous even!

And it made me think about just how much courage it really does take to love…and be loved.

To give it and receive it.

what is love valentines day tree at the picket fence

And then, I got to the last verse.

“Love never fails.” 

Never? But I fail. I fail in this kind of loving. I might get some of it right some of the time but I don’t get all of it right all of the time and that is for sure!

Then again, I’m going to fail, right? I’m human. I’m going to lose my patience and get angry and be envious and prideful and all of those things.

But, maybe this verse wasn’t written as much to instruct me in how to love as it was to remind me of the One who truly does NEVER fail!

And that means my “What is Love? Valentine’s Day Tree” can sit on my dining room table and not make me feel shamed or frustrated because I know I won’t ever be able to be all of those things all of the time.

Maybe it can sit on my dining room table and daily remind me of how grateful I am to be loved so deeply.

Well, I guess I better go stare at my Valentine’s Day Tree now.

I can hear someone doing something to someone who yelled at someone else about the something they touched that belonged to someone and someone is going to come tattle on the other someone….

Thanks so much for joining me today at the Fence,

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P.S. Did you notice the little keys I added to my Valentine’s Day Tree? Well, they reminded me of the awesome collection of typewriter key bracelets from JuNxtaposition! And right now they are all on sale for only $30!! And jewelry, unlike lingerie, is always a welcomed gift in this house!

 

 

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  1. Michael Reddin says

    January 30, 2013 at 5:57 AM

    Of course, I didn’t have to practice the “fruits of the spirit” when you were young. Wasn’t necessary!! 🙂

    Beautiful post! Love you, Mom

    Reply
  2. Vicki @ lifeinmyemptynest says

    January 30, 2013 at 6:50 AM

    I love this post! I needed to hear this today – just like you did 🙂

    Reply
  3. Shelia says

    January 30, 2013 at 7:30 AM

    Oh, darling! What a post! Thank you for sharing the real you. All of us mothers have been right where you were at times. You’re so right. Our God is perfect love and how wonderful to know we can lean on Him when we are not so loving or not so whatever. Your post makes me think of another scripture – Perfect love casts out all fear. Oh, I could write a book on that one! 🙂
    You are the sweetie,
    shelia 😉

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  4. Angelina says

    January 30, 2013 at 8:28 AM

    This is truly a LOVELY Valentines Day craft project. We all could use daily reminders of the fruits of the Spirit. Thank you for sharing this.
    xo
    Angelina

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  5. Amanda @ Serenity Now says

    January 30, 2013 at 8:41 AM

    Lovely post! It’s so encouraging to me when other bloggers who are moms open up about having “those” moments with the kids. Sometimes we paint such a pretty picture of our lives that we forget the realities that pop in from time to time. The tree is beautiful, and such a wonderful reminder. 🙂

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      January 30, 2013 at 4:00 PM

      Thanks so much Amanda! I agree that we need to all be sure to keep it “real”. My life is definitely not always a pretty picture!

      Reply
  6. Lisa says

    January 30, 2013 at 9:55 AM

    This is the second time this week, and it’s only Wednesday that I have heard or read a message about having a loving, forgiving, and patient spirit. It seems like we ALL need reminding from time to time how to get along and play nice!
    Great post Vanessa,
    Lisa

    Reply
  7. Monsterscircus says

    January 30, 2013 at 1:10 PM

    Wonderful writing and wonderful idea, love those small keys and your “keywords”. Always good to be reminded of 🙂

    Reply
  8. Susan @ My Place to Yours says

    January 30, 2013 at 2:19 PM

    What a “real” encourager you are to your readers. Thanks!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      January 30, 2013 at 3:59 PM

      You are so sweet Susan! Thanks for stopping by today!

      Reply
  9. Judy says

    January 30, 2013 at 2:32 PM

    What a powerful post. You are a wonderful writer and have a way of moving me with everything you say.

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      January 30, 2013 at 3:58 PM

      Awww..thanks friend!! I appreciate your encouragement!

      Reply
  10. Jordan@the2seasons says

    January 30, 2013 at 3:24 PM

    This is such a sweet way to incorporate valentines day. Plus it has a great message!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      January 30, 2013 at 3:58 PM

      Thanks so much Jordan! So glad you stopped by! 🙂

      Reply
  11. Debbie says

    January 30, 2013 at 4:58 PM

    Oh Vanessa, what a perfect post! I really do love the little tree craft, but what you said and what you LEARNED and shared was my favorite part by far.

    Reply
    • At The Picket Fence says

      January 30, 2013 at 7:07 PM

      Thank you so much Debbie! 🙂

      Reply
  12. Yvonne @ StoneGable says

    January 30, 2013 at 4:59 PM

    I think this is the sweetest and most poignant post! God reached down in our hearts if they are the least little open to him! And your heart is seems to be wide open!
    God bless you!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      January 30, 2013 at 7:11 PM

      Thanks Yvonne! You are a blessing to me! 🙂

      Reply
  13. Leslie Stewart @ House on the Way says

    January 30, 2013 at 6:09 PM

    I absolutely love your Valentine’s Day Tree! I’m pinning and sharing! Thanks for sharing.
    Leslie

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      January 30, 2013 at 7:12 PM

      Awww..thanks so much Leslie!

      Reply
  14. Richella @ Imparting Grace says

    January 30, 2013 at 6:29 PM

    Oh, yes, sweet girl. That chapter is all about God’s love–love that prompted him to send Jesus into the world to redeem us, not to condemn us. Rejoice! How great is the love the Father has showered on us! The one who IS love is teaching us how to love. 🙂

    Your tree is great, by the way!

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    • At The Picket Fence says

      January 30, 2013 at 7:12 PM

      Amen Richella!! Thanks so much for coming over today! 🙂

      Reply
  15. Kristie says

    January 31, 2013 at 9:02 AM

    Love this! Thanks!

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  16. The Shop Around the Corner says

    January 31, 2013 at 10:47 AM

    Absolutely beautiful, Vanessa. What a perfect way to share God’s Word and the message of one of the most cherished verses of all time. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE it…not to mention the perfect tags which I can’t seem to get enough of EVER. 😉
    Thank you for sharing with us and for transparency, sometimes just as rare as true love these days.
    Off to share on fb.
    XOXO’s
    Marcia

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  17. Sue says

    January 31, 2013 at 7:31 PM

    I love this post about real life and true love! <3

    Reply
  18. Thistle says

    February 1, 2013 at 7:41 AM

    LOVE this idea! I think my favorite line is “And I wasn’t feeling so loving.” How many times have I thought this! What a beautiful reminder and a great way to spread the joy on Valentine’s Day. Totally sharing!

    blessings,
    karianne

    Reply
  19. Lynn Richards says

    February 1, 2013 at 11:10 AM

    Oh, Vanessa,
    You had me laughing out loud at this post. What divine timing. I love the tree and what it makes us stop and think about. Thanks for sharing.
    xo
    lynn

    Reply
  20. Courtney says

    February 2, 2013 at 8:08 AM

    Great post Vanessa ~yes, I think we have all had those cranky days of the kids arguing! Love the little keys on your tree- so cute!!

    Reply
  21. Crystal says

    February 3, 2013 at 10:13 AM

    This is a wonderful idea! I love the little keys.

    Reply
  22. Lisa Hall says

    February 4, 2013 at 12:44 AM

    Vanessa,
    This is such a pretty project and such a beautiful post!
    I needed to hear this today and be reminded about real love and all it means.
    I love that bible passage!
    Thanks so much for the inspiration!
    Lisa

    Reply
  23. Sue says

    February 4, 2013 at 5:59 AM

    I think we all need to stop and reflect every so often- whether in the blogging world or in our own private lives. We all get so caught up in things and need to realize that we should go back to basics for our values and the golden rule! What a nice way to incorporate those ideals into this sweet Valentine tree, Vanessa. 🙂 Sue
    P.S. I’m gonna work on this today- I can get kinda “uppity” sometimes.

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  24. Laura / The Shed blog by Pet Scribbles says

    February 4, 2013 at 8:05 AM

    Wow, Vanessa. You stopped ME in my tracks with this post! Thanks for reminding us about some important facets of love that we all too easily forget in the midst of our daily busy-ness. And I adore your Valentine tree too!

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    • Vanessa says

      February 4, 2013 at 8:16 PM

      I’m so glad you stopped by Laura! Thanks for your sweet words! 🙂

      Reply
  25. Heather says

    February 5, 2013 at 5:43 AM

    Not only is your valentine’s love tree stylish and so pretty but it’s also beautiful in sentiment too! I love all the thoughtful messages you added to your tree – what a beautiful decor idea for a family or friend! Pinning 😀

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  26. Jessica says

    February 6, 2013 at 7:33 AM

    This is such a cute idea, and would make a great centerpiece for the holiday. Thanks for sharing it Vanessa! Check out some more craft ideas for you and the whole family here: https://www.care.com/child-care-41-easy-diy-valentines-day-crafts-for-kids-p1017-q24629994.html

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